Lolitas with Glasses and Shopping for Men

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Hello, everyone! I've come today with a couple questions - I hope a two-in-one is okay!

It's not really common that I see Lolita's with glasses, so that brings me to ask, "What kind of glasses would a lolita wear?"  For those of you with glasses, what kind of frames do you have? - Do your frames match with your preferred lolita style, do they not match, or do you not wear them at all with lolita?

Right now my frames are thick and black. I wonder if something like these would fit better with my classic wardrobe.

Also, Shopping for men? I've had trouble finding any shop that carries men clothing.

Thanks ! :3