Lolita Dress Code Question

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I know Lolita fashion can be pretty ridiculously broad, but I was wondering if spaghetti straps were appropriate for it.  I found a navy blue dress at the thrift store with enough room for ruffle-age and it's very cute but it does have very thin straps that tie together.
Does it depend on the dress? (should I post pictures?)

sorry about the socks/state of my room/general weirdness of my hair
I forgot I had some lines from Batman written on my mirror when I took these =w=;;


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