Looking for tea and petticoat time.

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Like one of the below posters, I am just doing a little outreach. I live in Dana Point (though I will be moving to San Diego at the end of August), and I would love to slip in some tea/mall travel time. I'm a 21 year old student at Saddleback, so I'm also often in Mission Viejo. I'm actually available today and tomorrow noon and onwards, in terms of immediate days off.

I drifted out of lolita about a year ago, and it would be nice to reconnect and do some coordination shopping with a fellow loli.

A question; how have you all dealt with describing the style/lifestyle? People's smiles drop when you say lolita, because it sounds like you're pimping a pedo-fetish, rather than the lovely, invested hobby it is.